Tears aren't a sign of weakness

DEAR JOYCE BROTHERS: Every time our 4-year-old son cries myhusband makes fun of him and also of me when I sympathize, saying I'mturning him into a sissy.

I fail to see what's wrong in comforting a child when he's hurt,physically or emotionally. Obviously, however, I don't want our sonto be effeminate or a wimp. E.P.

DEAR E.P.: I have to remind you of the old saying . . ."Everything in moderation." Of course, children should be comfortedwhen they're hurt.

This teaches them that adults are sensitive, caring people whoare able to love and empathize. On the other hand, no one admires achild who runs to mother at every moment and has no …